“Living itself is an art. The more you understand it, the more you can create the most beautiful things with it.” — Hellen Chen
Those people who put looks as the top criteria in their search for a marriage partner often have a serious misconception about marriage.
If marriage is the goal, then finding someone who has a similar goal to get married is, of course, the utmost importance.
But those members of the “Looks is Everything” club have not really considered this fact. In their mind, they are going, “That person is not good-looking enough. I don’t like their body shape!”
What do all these criteria got to do with the goal of getting married?
That means they only like the person’s looks and body, all for the purpose of pleasing their own eyes.
They have not thought about marriage.
Unfortunately, they will be heartbroken each time. They will go on dating, looking for the next pretty girl or guy, but the eventual result is always the same – failure.
If you choose a partner to marry because you would like to form a family, maybe have 3 kids, and be a good parent, you will do everything you can to give birth, to make more money for the family, etc. There will be no problem with such a relationship.
But if you have no plans whatsoever for marriage, all you care for is to float around in the sea of romance, then if someone you meet did marry you, there will be tremendous problems in the end.
A man who desires marriage is looking for a family. A woman is looking for a home. So who should you marry? Of course, you must marry the man who wants a family. If you only care for looks and appearances, you will marry a guy or girl who most likely will cheat on you, and separation and divorce will be the case.
It makes a huge difference in what you place your emphasis on.
End of excerpt from Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Book
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